I could use an objective opinion. My wife and I are building a new house and picking out all the materials for the kitchen. She wants cabinets painted yellow and all these flowers. It's really her room because she does allt he cooking, but I can't look at that for the next 15 years. I want her to be happy. How do we come up with something I can live with that she won't use against me as long as we're in this house?